A gentle guide to making a new space feel like home
Moving into a care home is a big step, not just for the person moving but for everyone who loves them. It’s normal to feel a mix of emotions, ranging from uncertainty and worry to hope and relief. One of the most practical ways to ease this transition is by knowing what to bring. The right items can make a huge difference in helping a room feel personal, comfortable, and familiar from day one.
At Derwent Lodge in West Sussex, we’ve helped many families through this journey, and we’re here to support you every step of the way. Below, you’ll find a caring and practical guide to help you decide what to pack.
1. Essential Clothing and Day-to-Day Comforts
Start with everyday clothing that your loved one feels good in. Comfort is key, but so is familiarity. Think about:
- Easy-to-wear tops, trousers, and skirts
- Nightwear and dressing gowns
- Warm layers like cardigans or jumpers
- Slippers and comfortable shoes
- Undergarments and socks
Make sure everything is clearly labelled. If you’re not sure how to do this, care homes like ours are happy to advise.
2. Favourite Personal Items and Home Comforts
A few personal touches can make a new room feel warm and reassuring. Consider packing:
- Family photos in frames
- A favourite blanket or cushion
- Books, crossword puzzles, or hobbies they enjoy
- A small piece of furniture (space-permitting) like a chair or side table
- Ornaments or keepsakes with emotional value
Even a familiar mug or lamp can provide a sense of stability during a time of change.
3. Toiletries and Personal Care Items
While many essentials are provided, having familiar brands and scents can help your loved one feel more at home. You may want to bring:
- Toothbrush, toothpaste, and denture care if needed
- Hairbrush or comb
- Shower gel, shampoo, hand cream, etc.
- Razors or electric shavers
- Makeup or perfume, if they enjoy using them
If your loved one has specific skin or medical needs, it’s helpful to speak to the care team so they can continue any preferred routines.
4. Important Documents (Handled Securely)
You don’t need to hand over everything at once, but having key documents available can be helpful. These may include:
- ID such as a passport or driving licence
- Medical cards or medication records
- Power of attorney paperwork (if relevant)
- Emergency contact details
Rest assured, at Derwent Lodge, we treat all personal information with complete confidentiality and care.
5. Technology and Entertainment
Staying connected can be a huge comfort, especially in the early days. You might include:
- A mobile phone or tablet (with charger)
- Headphones or a small radio
- A TV (if the room doesn’t already have one)
- Reading glasses or magnifiers
- Notebooks or stationery for letter writing
Our staff are always on hand to help set up tech, so your loved one can video call family or listen to their favourite music with ease.
6. Medication
Most care homes will take over the management of prescribed medication, but it’s a good idea to bring current prescriptions or packaging to help with the transition. Any over-the-counter products should be discussed with the care team to ensure safety.
Reassure, Don’t Overwhelm
When helping someone pack, especially if they’re nervous or unsure, try to keep the focus on comfort rather than downsizing. This is about making their space feel like their own, a place they can settle into with dignity and peace of mind.
Let them lead where possible. You might ask,
“Which blanket would you like to bring?”
“Would you like your photo of the garden next to your bed?”
These small gestures can help them feel heard and respected throughout the process.
Everyone’s Different — And That’s Okay
Some people arrive with just a small suitcase and settle in beautifully. Others prefer to bring many home comforts to surround themselves with familiarity. There’s no right or wrong way. At Derwent Lodge, we tailor each room and experience to suit the individual, always offering warmth, respect and compassion.
Ready to Start the Next Chapter with Us?
Moving into a care home is more than a change of address — it’s the beginning of a new chapter filled with comfort, community, and personalised support. At Derwent Lodge Care Home, we’re here to make that transition warm, reassuring, and full of possibility.
Our friendly team is always happy to offer guidance on what to bring, how to settle in, and ways we can make life here truly feel like home. We provide a full range of care services, including Residential Care, Nursing Care, Dementia Care, Respite Care, Convalescent Care, and Palliative Care.
At Derwent Lodge, your comfort and happiness come first — and we’re here to help you or your loved one settle in with ease and confidence.
